Step 1: Cancel your subscription
- iPhone: Settings → your name → Subscriptions → OurTime → Cancel.
- Android: Google Play → profile icon → Payments & subscriptions → Subscriptions → OurTime → Cancel.
- Website: OurTime account settings → subscription / billing.
Step 2: Delete your OurTime account
- Log in on the website.
- Open Account Settings.
- Cancel your subscription if you have one.
- Choose Remove profile and confirm.
Menu names can change after app updates. If you can’t find an option, check OurTime’s help centre.
Delete vs pause
Deleting removes your profile, matches and messages permanently. If you might return, look for a pause or hide profile option instead.
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Frequently asked questions
Does deleting OurTime cancel my subscription?
Subscriptions renew automatically — cancel them before removing the profile.
Does uninstalling OurTime delete my account?
No. Removing the app from your phone leaves your profile active. You must delete the account in settings.
Can I pause OurTime instead of deleting?
Many dating sites let you hide or pause your profile. Check OurTime’s settings for a pause or hide option if you might come back.