Best sites · Orientation & identity
The best LGBTQ+ dating sites combine inclusive gender and orientation options with strong safety features.
| Site | Fit for lgbtq+ | Overall | Best for | Free version | Paid from | Link |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| HER | LGBTQ+ women and queer people | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| Hinge | Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s | Yes | ≈ $30/mo | Visit | ||
| Bumble | Women who want more control | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| Tinder | Meeting lots of people fast | Yes | ≈ $10/mo | Visit | ||
| Grindr | Gay and bi men meeting people nearby | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| Taimi | LGBTQ+ singles of every identity | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit |
We rank for this audience, so the order follows the fit score. The overall rating reflects the site as a whole. How we score.
Fit for lgbtq+ · Overall rating 4.1
Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people
The go-to app for lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people, with events and community feeds.
Fit for lgbtq+ · Overall rating 4.5
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
Relationship-focused and inclusive, with many gender identity options.
Fit for lgbtq+ · Overall rating 4.2
Best for: Women who want more control
In same-gender matches either person can message first, and moderation is strong.
Fit for lgbtq+ · Overall rating 4.0
Best for: Meeting lots of people fast
The largest user base with flexible orientation settings.
Fit for lgbtq+ · Overall rating 3.8
Best for: Gay and bi men meeting people nearby
The biggest community for gay, bi, trans and queer people, with free messaging.
Fit for lgbtq+ · Overall rating 3.9
Best for: LGBTQ+ singles of every identity
Inclusive of every identity, with community features alongside dating.
Use the orientation and identity options so that the right people see you. If you are not out, check each site’s privacy options — some offer incognito modes or hide your profile from people you don’t match with.
Some countries criminalise LGBTQ+ relationships; when travelling, review each site’s safety features and be careful about sharing identifying details.
We ranked sites on match quality, features, value, safety and ease of use, and weighed how well each fits this audience. Read our full testing methodology.
HER is the best-known app for lesbian and queer women; Hinge and Bumble are strong alternatives.
Reputable sites and apps offer verification and reporting. Always meet in public and tell a friend your plans.