Best sites · Orientation & identity
These sites put lesbian and queer women first — with inclusive settings and communities that go beyond dating.
| Site | Fit for lesbian | Overall | Best for | Free version | Paid from | Link |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| HER | LGBTQ+ women and queer people | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| Hinge | Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s | Yes | ≈ $30/mo | Visit | ||
| Taimi | LGBTQ+ singles of every identity | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit | ||
| Bumble | Women who want more control | Yes | ≈ $15/mo | Visit |
We rank for this audience, so the order follows the fit score. The overall rating reflects the site as a whole. How we score.
Fit for lesbian · Overall rating 4.1
Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people
The best-known app for lesbian, bi and queer women, with events and communities.
Fit for lesbian · Overall rating 4.5
Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s
Relationship-focused with inclusive identity options.
Fit for lesbian · Overall rating 3.9
Best for: LGBTQ+ singles of every identity
An LGBTQ+ app with social features and video calls.
Fit for lesbian · Overall rating 4.2
Best for: Women who want more control
Either person can message first in same-gender matches.
Set your orientation and who you want to see carefully — it keeps your matches relevant. Community features on HER are a good way to meet people without pressure.
We ranked sites on match quality, features, value, safety and ease of use, and weighed how well each fits this audience. Read our full testing methodology.
HER is the most popular app for lesbian and queer women; Hinge and Bumble are good alternatives.
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