A catfish uses fake photos or a false identity. Some want money, some attention, and some are simply insecure — but you deserve to know who you are talking to.
Signs you may be talking to a catfish
- Only a few, very polished photos
- No social media, or accounts that were created recently
- Refuses video calls or keeps the camera “broken”
- Vague answers about work and location
- Profile details that don’t match what they tell you
Five quick checks
- Reverse image search their photos with Google Lens or TinEye.
- Ask for a video call — the single best test.
- Ask for a specific selfie, e.g. holding up three fingers.
- Look for verification badges on the site.
- Search their name together with their city or employer.
See the full walkthrough in how to verify someone online.
If you have been catfished
Stop contact, report the profile on the site, and never send money. If money was involved, follow the steps in our romance scam guide.
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Frequently asked questions
What is catfishing?
Catfishing means using a fake identity online — someone else’s photos, a made-up name or false details.
Can you catch a catfish with a reverse image search?
Often, yes. If the photos appear under a different name or on stock sites, the profile is likely fake.